Louise Speaks: Day 12: Well today is the last morning I will wake up under Canadian skies. It is a sad day in so many ways. I have two aunts left to see, and what a coincidence that both aunts are in the same care facility.
Denise once again came to pick us up to take us to the care facility. One of the aunts is her mother. We wanted to get a head start and get to the care facility early as we need to cross the border today and hope to stay in Michigan tonight.
We stopped to see my Aunt Carmen first. This is my mothers sister, 7th younger than her. I was told not to expect much as she doesn’t remember anyone…not even her own sister just down the hall. As we arrived she was having breakfast so I approached her and said hello. She looked at me for a second and I said, “it’s me auntie…Marlene, Simone’s daughter”. She immediately got the biggest grin on her face and said Oh My God and she hugged me. It was very touching and Denise said, she remembers you. Aunt Carmen doesn’t speak much English or at least she didn’t to me. Maybe it was because Denise was talking to her in french so she just replied in french. Carmen has 5 children but I was only able to meet two of them Anne and Norm. At any rate I am so glad I got to see her. There are only 6 of the 17 left. I do say I have 7 relatives left on my mothers side because I count Aunt Helene who is an aunt through marriage.
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From Aunt Carmen it was off to see Denise’s mom, my Aunt Therese. She is in better shape and is just getting old. My mother was the 4th born and Aunt Therese was the 5th, so my mom was pretty close to this sister. She speaks English so we were able to talk. She asked what I was doing there. It was pretty funny really. I do know that Aunt Therese knew who I was because she asked about my brothers. I don’t remember how many children my Aunt Therese had but there were a bunch…I think more than my grandmother and she had 17. I was only able to meet four of them, but I have met some of the others before.
I had tears in my eyes as I left the facility because I’m wondering if this is the last time I will see either of these aunts. Again, I have to start coming back to Canada more often than once every 10 years.
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Denise then took us back to the RV and we were on the road. We hadn’t gotten gas once while in Canada but we thought we might get a few “liters” to get us across the border. We were now heading home. I’ve seen everyone but Aunt Claudette and Aunt Bea that I wanted to see, and I saw more that I didn’t even knew existed. It is fun having a large family, 24 aunts and uncles, but sad that I was not able to see them while I was growing up. I guess I’m going to have to hear about my aunts and uncles through the memories of my cousins. Lets keep in touch family…I miss you already, and love you bunches.
USA….here we come!